FAQs
Frequently asked questions about BDSM
BDSM FAQs to research, book and play with a professional dominatrix.
Fetish preferences and BDSM practices of Amalie von Stein
I love the pleasurable game of dominance and submission. Over the years I have learned and perfected the most diverse BDSM practices.
My large repertoire of skills and practices is also reflected in my varied BDSM sessions.
So that you know exactly what services I offer and what you can approximately expect, I have compiled this BDSM encyclopedia for you to research and book a session.
What is black (BDSM)
Impact games (flagellation)
In the context of a BDSM session, flagellation ranges from sensual, tenderly stimulating to violent "hard" strokes. A flagellation can be performed with the hand (spanking), as well as with various instruments such as a cane (caning), a paddle or a whip (whipping).
Torturing and humiliating the play partner is just as exciting as receiving and enduring the pain of corporal punishment for the mistress.
Nipple play and nipple torture
Nipple play is an intense practice because nipples are very sensitive. The spectrum of nipple play is very wide and ranges from light touching to strong irritation.
Nipple torture can include dousing with hot wax, applying special nipple clamps, violent electrical stimulation or the use of other pointed objects to prick the nipple. Other toys may also be included in the game with the nipples. Stimulation by a pointed metal wheel (nerve wheel) or targeted strokes with a crop or whip.
More extreme forms of nipple torture include electrical stimulation or needling. Needling involves piercing the nipple with special metal needles or cannulas.
Sensory deprivation
In sensory deprivation, I specifically influence one or more of your senses.
Your body is used to perceiving its environment with all its senses. If I switch off one of these senses, the other senses try to compensate for this deficit.
Now imagine that I don't just turn off one sense. How will the other senses react to compensate for this deficit? Incredibly intense!
In many BDSM practices, depriving one sense is a great way to intensify the experience. For example, a deprivation mask can be used to eliminate the senses of sight and hearing, and rubber hoses can be used to manipulate the sense of smell.
Classic sensory deprivation also includes (prolonged) placement in an isolation or dark room.
Cock and ball torture (CBT).
Cock and ball torture involves squeezing, pulling and spanking to misstreat them just a bit. Or sometimes even a little more...
Cock and Ball Torture (CBT) involves tying the testicles and penis with rope or pantyhose (penis bondage) and beating or electrocuting them with a crop. Weights on the genitals (testicle parachute) or a testicle striker (humbler) this can make a cock and ball torture even more varied and intense.
Anal Play
I usually start each anal treatment with an erotic enema. The stretching of the anus is achieved with different sized dildos, anal plugs or a speculum. Only when the butt hole is relaxed and dilated, pegging (anal intercourse with a strap-on / strap-on dildo), prostate massage or fisting can be started.
Role Play
Role play is primarily about dominance and submission. Usually, roles are chosen where there is usually a large power imbalance. Popular roles include policewoman and prisoner, teacher and student, doctor and patient, mistress and dog, etc. Through appropriate clothing, accessories and toys, fiction and reality merge smoothly.
A typical BDSM role play, degrades the submissive partner to an inferior person from whom absolute obedience is expected. The cleaning of the boots with the tongue is still a harmless task.
Masochists & Submissives and Slaves
Masochists experience sexual pleasure and satisfaction through emotional repression and physical pain. A masochist does not necessarily have to be a submissive slave. A masochist is more likely to seek a play partner who will inflict pain and push him to the limits of physical endurance.
Of course, there are also many submissive people with masochistic tendencies. Therefore, a confidential preliminary conversation is important to be able to respond to the needs of a masochist.
Clasical Dominance
Dominance means that one person (Top) has a higher social status than another (Bottom). The submissive bottom (sub) reveres and respects the top and accepts his decisions unconditionally. This interplay of dominance and submission need not be limited to BDSM. In a Female-led Relationship (FLR) or Total Power Exchange (TPE), the woman also takes the lead in all other areas of private life.
Sissification and GenderEducation
Sissy education is about transforming a (male) sub into a woman (transvestite / sissy). This transformation into a woman starts with wearing women's underwear, women's clothes and learning how to walk elegantly on high heels.
However, sissy education is not only about the visual transformation into a woman. Thus, the ladies' wearer of lingerie must also learn to put on makeup just like a woman, to paint his fingernails, to observe the rules of decorum of a lady and to acquire the submissive behavior of a maid.
The feminization of the male sex is often achieved by wearing a chastity belt.
Foot, Stockings and Shoe Fetish
The different fetishes like foot, stocking or shoe fetish have a central aspect like any other fetish. The mere looking at, touching or smelling leads to sexual arousal in the fetishist. This sexual arousal can be increased by sniffing (sniffing) or crushing (crushing).
Stinky socks, feet, and shoes that smell like foot sweat are often used as punishment or reward in the BDSM context. Kissing and licking the shoes clean is also often used by the top to humiliate and punish the submissive partner.
Ballbusting
Ballbusting is a very painful form of CBT (Cock & Ball Torture). The mistress maltreats the testicles of the slave with targeted kicks and punches. Depending on the desired intensity and inclination, ballbusting can vary. For example, the mistress can kick with bare feet, boots or high heels. Kicks and punches with the knee or fists are also common. So that the slave can not escape the kicks and punches, he is often fixed with ropes or a spreader bar before the ballbusting. The educational effect of ballbusting is very high. If the slave sinks to the ground whimpering and with tears in his eyes after the first kick, he will correct his previous misbehavior.
Trampling
In trampling the dominatrix stands on the slave and walks over the slave's body. Trampling can be done barefoot, with nylon stockings or with different shoes. For this reason, trampling is as popular with foot and shoe fetishists as it is with lovers of nylon stockings and socks. While masochists focus on the pleasure of pain, fetishists experience unimagined sexual excitement from the closeness and contact with their object of desire. Trampling has a high humiliation factor. When the mistress tramples on the naked slave with unwashed feet or presses the nylon stockings into his face, the existing power imbalance is intensified. If the pain is to be in the foreground, the dominatrix likes to put on high heels with a nasty, thin heel.
What is white? (Medical Play)
Urological examination and urethral stimulation (sounding)
Urological examination and urethral stimulation (sounding) is a popular practice at the White Clinic. In addition to traditional games with dilators and probes, catheter games are also an integral part of the urologic examination. With urethral vibrators, stimulation occurs through dilatation and vibration that spreads to the glans or prostate.
As with most BDSM practices in the clinical setting, absolute hygiene must be observed during sounding.
Games with needles
Using needles refers to a BDSM practice that is often practiced in the white clinic scene. It involves piercing the skin of the submissive partner with needles and cannulas. Needle games cause pleasure pain and look very aesthetic. Especially popular body parts to use for needle play are the nipples, the back or the penis/scrotum.
To intensify the pleasure pain, the inserted needles can be weighted with weights or doused with hot candle wax.
Rectal treatments, bowel enemas and enemas.
Clinic games (medical play) also include enemas or clysters.
Just inserting the tube and letting the liquid run in gives many subs an arousing feeling. Rectal enemas are used to clean the anus and as preparation for various games around the anus. In clinic play, erotic enemas are often an integral part of role play and are part of the realistic treatment of the patient.
Enemas can also be wonderfully integrated into BDSM play. Thus, the slave can be forced to hold the administered liquid for as long as possible under the threat of a harsh punishment. The spontaneous loss of control over one's own bowel activity is often used to humiliate the slave.
Injections under your skin
Injecting into the breast, penile prepuce or scrotum is a popular clinical practice. In injections, a sterile saline solution is injected under the skin. The injection is administered just under the skin without touching nerves or blood vessels. Depending on the amount of saline administered, there may be a clearly visible swelling that disappears over time.
This practice carries a significant risk of infection and should only be performed by experienced dominas.
What is latex and rubber?
Latex, rubber and leather fetish clothing
In the BDSM scene and especially in the SM studio the fetish clothing takes a high value. A dominatrix or a BDSM studio without latex, vinyl, rubber and leather is hardly imaginable.
As with most fetishes, a strong fixation on these materials is common for the latex, rubber and leather fetishist. The smell and feel lead to sexual pleasure.
Latex fetishists appreciate the erotic shine, the tingling sound and the feeling of wearing a second, tight-fitting skin.
Leather fetishists appreciate the intense smell, the typical look and the BDSM symbolism of leather.
Rubber fetishists focus on the typical smell, the intense shine and the rather constricting feeling compared to latex
Single latex and multilayer latex training
Multi-layer latex training involves wrapping the sub in a tight cocoon of latex (mummification). This practice is also known as latex bondage or sweat cure. The many layers of latex not only immobilize the sub, but also heat up his body extremely.
In Heavy Rubber practices, the slave's body is also completely wrapped in latex and rubber. A fully rubberized latex slave is also called a rubber doll. The full rubberization with latex mask and latex clothes (Rubber-Doll) has also a psychological aspect. Such a fully rubberized latex slave is no longer considered a person, but only an object.
Mask training, breath control and smell training
Mask training can be motivated in very different ways and different masks are used depending on the area of application. Gas masks or special sniffing masks are suitable for breath control and smell training. Leather and latex masks are usually preferred to anonymize the slave. Pig and other animal masks are used in pet play or to humiliate and degrade the slave.
What are Dirty Games?
Spitting and Saliva
Spitting is a very common practise. There are so many different ways of how to include this type of play; for example spitting directly into the face of the sub. But it can also be that the top spits on his shoes and the bottom then licks everything clean. Another spitting game is the domina kiss. In this, the Mistress bends over the slave and lets her saliva run into the slave's mouth without their lips touching. Spitting and saliva games can be both humiliating and arousing for the slave.
Golden shower and scat play
Golden shower (urophilia) refers to the sexual preference for urine. Here, the act of urinating or the urine itself is perceived as sexually stimulating. There are urine lovers who enjoy being peed on directly or taking urine orally. Often, a preference for golden showers is closely associated with a preference for scat play (feces). Golden shower and scat are used in the BDSM scene for various purposes, such as humiliation, punishment or even as a reward. Golden shower and scat are also used to train "human toilets".
The Game with sperm and period blood
Menstrual fetishists (menophilia) find their sexual satisfaction in sucking used and soaked tampons and pads. Dirty games also include games with their own or other people's sperm. The ejaculate is spread on the face of the slave or taken orally. Sperm and menstruation games are firmly established in the BDSM scene and are often used to punish and humiliate the slave.
Force Feeding
Force-feeding in BDSM is often used in the context of clinic sex, dirty play or human toilet training. Here, the sub is forced to swallow a wide variety of (mostly disgusting) things by means of a hose gag, mouth spreader or a latex mask with a funnel. A slightly differently motivated fetish is the forced fattening of a person.
Games with food
One of the most popular food games is crushing. Here, various foods are crushed by Top with his shoes or bare feet and then licked up by the sub. Another popular food game variant is the feeding of (pre-chewed) food scraps.
What is bondage?
Fixations / Bondage
The generally known fixation options such as handcuffs, spreader bars or pillories are a type of bondage for a certain purpouse. Here, the focus is not on the bondage, but on the purpose of the fixation. In this bondage, the slave's body is placed in a position desired by the dominatrix and fixed in it. So the slave can be better punished or penetrated.
Bondage with ropes (Rope bondage)
Bondage with ropes can be used to restrict the freedom of movement and for aesthetic purposes (Japanese Shibari bondage). The bound (bottom) surrenders completely to the restrainer (top). Bondage with ropes is also excellent for putting the bottom in a body position preferred by the top. Popular are for example the spread legs (Y-position) or the hogtie.
Foil Bondage
In this special form of bondage, the sub is wrapped in cling film. Through several layers of cling film, the sub is wrapped like in a concon and thus made immobile. This tight wrapping develops a soothing heat and the top can cut a hole in the concon at the desired places. For example, he can expose the nipples to attach some nasty clamps.
Imprisonment / Captivity
Imprisonment is a popular role play in the BDSM field. Here the slave is imprisoned by the dominatrix and is mercilessly at the mercy of her power and ruthlessness. The captivity usually takes place in specially designed cells or dungeons from which there is no escape. The imprisoned cell slave ekes out a meager existence on bread and water and is completely at the mercy of the whims and harassment of the overseer (Dominatrix).
What is Body Worship?
Body Worship
Body Worship refers to an extreme form of worship of the body. Whether it is the need for a strong, muscular woman who can quickly overpower you, or simply the admiration for a woman who is so beautiful, graceful and flawless that you can only fall to your knees and worship Amalie von Stein.
What is Financial Domination?
Financial Domination (Money Slavery)
Financial domination (money slavery) is a not entirely uncontroversial fetish. As the term suggests, money slavery is exclusively about money and expensive gifts that the money slave gives to his MoneyDom. These tribute payments can take various forms: Gifts and vouchers through Amazon or in the form of direct payments. The MoneyDom gives the MoneySlave some of her attention as long as he pays and fulfills his duties. The only "affection" the money slave receives in return from the money mistress is humiliation.
What can you experience with me?
BDSM is a very wide field with many facets. More details about the above practices can be found here.
