FAQs - Frequently asked questions about BDSM

In a BDSM session, flagellation ranges from sensual, gently stimulating, to violent "hard" blows. Flagellation can be carried out by hand (spanking), with percussion instruments such as a cane (caning), a paddle or whip.
o torture and humiliate your play partner is just as exciting as receiving the pain of corporal punishment and bearing it for your mistress.

Nipple treatment is an intensive practice because nipples are extremely sensitive. The spectrum of nipple treatments is huge and ranges from very light caresses to strong stimuli.
Nipple torture can include pouring hot wax, applying special nipple clamps, intense electrical stimulation or needling. Other toys can also be included in the nipple treatment. Stimulation with the help of a sharp metal wheel (nerve wheel) or targeted blows with a riding crop or a whip.
Electrostimulation or needling are among the more extreme forms of nipple torture. When needling, the nipple is pierced with special metal needles or cannulas.

In stimulus deprivation, I specifically influence one or more of your senses.
Your body is used to perceiving its surroundings with all of its senses. If one of these senses is switched off, then the other senses try to compensate for this deficit.
Now imagine I'm not just taking one of your senses away from you. How will the other senses react to make up for this deficit? Incredibly intense!
With many BDSM practices, sensory deprivation is a nice way to intensify the experience. By using a deprivation mask, for example, the sense of sight and hearing can be switched off and the sense of smell can be manipulated via rubber hoses.
Classic sensory deprivation also includes (longer) accommodation in an isolation or dark box.

With cock and ball torture, the testicles are pressed, squeezed and a little bit mistreated. Or a little more ...
For a Cock and Ball Torture (CBT), the testicles and the penis can be tied with a rope or pantyhose (penis bondage) and tortured by being beaten with a whip or with electricity. Weights on the genitals (testicle parachute) or a testicle pillory (humbler) can make CBT much more varied and intense.

I usually start every anal treatment with an erotic enema. The stretching of the anus can be achieved with different sized dildos, anal plugs or a speculum. Only when the butt hole is relaxed and widened can you start pegging (anal intercourse with a strap-on / strap-on dildo), a prostate massage or fisting.

RPG is primarily about dominance and submission. In most cases, roles are chosen where there is usually a large power imbalance. Policewoman and prisoner, teacher and student, doctor and patient, mistress and dog and many others are very popular. The right clothing, appropriate accessories and the right toys allow fiction and reality to flow into one another.
A typical BDSM role play degrades the submissive partner to an inferior person from whom absolute obedience is expected. Cleaning the boots with your tongue as example is a rather harmless tasks.

Masochists experience sexual pleasure and satisfaction through emotional oppression and physical pain. A masochist does not have to be a submissive slave. A masochist is more likely to look for a play partner who inflicts pain on him and takes him to the limits of his physical capacity.
Of course, there are also many submissive people who have masochistic tendencies. For this reason, a confidential preliminary talk is essential to address the needs of a masochist.

Dominance means that one person (top) has a higher social status than another (bottom). The submissive bottom (sub) worships and respects the top and accepts all his decisions without hesitation. This interplay of dominance and submission does not have to be limited to the BDSM playing time. In the case of a Female-led Relationship (FLR) or Total Power Exchange (TPE), the woman also takes the lead in all other areas of private life.

Crossdressing is about transforming a (male) sub into a woman (transvestite / sissy). This transformation into a woman begins with wearing women's underwear, women's clothes and learning to walk elegantly in high heels.
Crossdressing and sissy training is not just about the visual transformation into a woman. So the lady's lingerie wearer (DWT) also has to learn to apply make-up like a woman, to paint her nails and to adhere to a lady's rules of propriety and to adopt the submissive behavior of a maid.
Feminizing a male sub often involves wearing a chastity belt.

The different fetishes such as foot, nylon or shoe fetishes, like any other fetish, have a central aspect. Just looking at it, touching it or smelling it, gives the fetishist sexual arousal. This sexual excitement can be increased by sniffing or crushing.
In the BDSM context, smelly socks, feet and shoes that smell of foot sweat are often used as punishment or as a reward. The top also likes to have the submissive partner kiss and lick the shoes clean to impose humiliation and punishment.

Ballbusting is a painful form of CBT. In this practice, the mistress maltreats the slave's testicles with well aimed kicks and blows. Depending on the prospect's interests and inclinations, the ballbusting can be diversified. For example, the mistress can step with bare feet, boots or high heels. Kicks and punches with the knee or fists are also a common practice. So that the slaves cannot escape the kicks and blows, they are fixed with ropes or a spreader bar before ballbusting. Ballbusting has an important educational effect. If the slave sinks to the ground whimpering after the first kick and with tears in his eyes, he will correct his previous wrongdoing.

When trampling (English for “trample / stamp”) the dominatrix stands on the sub and walks over his slave's body. Trampling can be done barefoot, wearing nylons or wearing different shoes. For this reason, trampling is popular with foot and shoe fetishists as well as lovers of nylon stockings and socks. While masochists focus on the pleasure of pain, fetishists experience unimagined sexual arousal through closeness and contact with their object of desire. Trampling has a high degrading factor. If the mistress steps over the naked slave with unwashed feet or presses her nylon-stocked feet into his face, the existing power imbalance increases. However, if the focus should be on pain, then the dominatrix likes to put on high heels with a nasty thin heel.

Urological examinations and urethral stimulation (sounding) is a popular practice in white clinics. In addition to the classic games with dilators and probes, catheter games are also an integral part of the urological examination. Urethral vibrators are stimulated by stretching and vibrations that spread to the glans or prostate.
As with most BDSM practices in the clinic, absolute hygiene must be observed when sounding.

The term needle games refers to a BDSM practice that is often practiced in the white clinic area. The submissive partner's skin is pierced with needles and cannulas. Needle games lead to pleasure pain and look extremely artistic. Particularly popular parts of the body are the nipples, the back or the penis / scrotum.
In order to intensify the pleasurable pain, the needles can be loaded with weights or hot candle wax can be drizzled on.

Clinic games (white eroticism) also include enemas or enema.
For many subs, just inserting the hose and running in the liquid gives them an exciting feeling. Rectal enemas are used for anal cleansing and as preparation for various types of play around the anus. In the clinic game, erotic enemas are often an integral part of the role play and are part of the realistic treatment of the patient.
Enemas can also be wonderfully integrated into BDSM games. In this way, the slave can be forced, under threat of severe punishment, to hold the administered fluid for as long as possible. The spontaneous loss of control over one's own bowel activities is often used to humiliate the slave.

Piercing the breast, penis foreskin or scrotum is a popular practice in clinical eroticism. With the injection, a sterile saline solution is injected under the skin and is therefore one of the most realistic clinical practices. The slave skin is injected under the skin without hitting nerve or blood vessels. Depending on the amount of saline solution administered, a clearly visible swelling may appear, which will disappear again over time.
This practice harbors a considerable risk of infection and should only be carried out by knowledgeable dominatrixes.