FAQs - Frequently asked questions about BDSM

BDSM FAQs about researching, booking and playing with a professional dominatrix.

Fetish preferences and BDSM practices with Amalie von Stein

I love the pleasurable game of domination and submission. Over the years, I have learned and perfected a wide variety of BDSM practices.
My huge repertoire of skills and practices is also reflected in my varied BDSM sessions.
So that you know exactly what services I offer and what to expect during our preliminary talk, I have put together this BDSM lexicon for researching and booking a session.

What is Black?

Impact play (flagellation)

In a BDSM session, flagellation ranges from sensual, gently stimulating, to violent "hard" blows. Flagellation can be carried out by hand (spanking), with percussion instruments such as a cane (caning), a paddle or whip.
o torture and humiliate your play partner is just as exciting as receiving the pain of corporal punishment and bearing it for your mistress.

Nipple play and nipple torture

Nipple treatment is an intensive practice because nipples are extremely sensitive. The spectrum of nipple treatments is huge and ranges from very light caresses to strong stimuli.
Nipple torture can include pouring hot wax, applying special nipple clamps, intense electrical stimulation or needling. Other toys can also be included in the nipple treatment. Stimulation with the help of a sharp metal wheel (nerve wheel) or targeted blows with a riding crop or a whip.
Electrostimulation or needling are among the more extreme forms of nipple torture. When needling, the nipple is pierced with special metal needles or cannulas.

Sensory deprivation

In stimulus deprivation, I specifically influence one or more of your senses.
Your body is used to perceiving its surroundings with all of its senses. If one of these senses is switched off, then the other senses try to compensate for this deficit.
Now imagine I'm not just taking one of your senses away from you. How will the other senses react to make up for this deficit? Incredibly intense!
With many BDSM practices, sensory deprivation is a nice way to intensify the experience. By using a deprivation mask, for example, the sense of sight and hearing can be switched off and the sense of smell can be manipulated via rubber hoses.
Classic sensory deprivation also includes (longer) accommodation in an isolation or dark box.

Cock and ball torture (CBT)

With cock and ball torture, the testicles are pressed, squeezed and a little bit mistreated. Or a little more ...
For a Cock and Ball Torture (CBT), the testicles and the penis can be tied with a rope or pantyhose (penis bondage) and tortured by being beaten with a whip or with electricity. Weights on the genitals (testicle parachute) or a testicle pillory (humbler) can make CBT much more varied and intense.

Anal treatment

I usually start every anal treatment with an erotic enema. The stretching of the anus can be achieved with different sized dildos, anal plugs or a speculum. Only when the butt hole is relaxed and widened can you start pegging (anal intercourse with a strap-on / strap-on dildo), a prostate massage or fisting.

Role play

RPG is primarily about dominance and submission. In most cases, roles are chosen where there is usually a large power imbalance. Policewoman and prisoner, teacher and student, doctor and patient, mistress and dog and many others are very popular. The right clothing, appropriate accessories and the right toys allow fiction and reality to flow into one another.
A typical BDSM role play degrades the submissive partner to an inferior person from whom absolute obedience is expected. Cleaning the boots with your tongue as example is a rather harmless tasks.

Masochists, submissives and slaves

Masochists experience sexual pleasure and satisfaction through emotional oppression and physical pain. A masochist does not have to be a submissive slave. A masochist is more likely to look for a play partner who inflicts pain on him and takes him to the limits of his physical capacity.
Of course, there are also many submissive people who have masochistic tendencies. For this reason, a confidential preliminary talk is essential to address the needs of a masochist.

Classic dominance

Dominance means that one person (top) has a higher social status than another (bottom). The submissive bottom (sub) worships and respects the top and accepts all his decisions without hesitation. This interplay of dominance and submission does not have to be limited to the BDSM playing time. In the case of a Female-led Relationship (FLR) or Total Power Exchange (TPE), the woman also takes the lead in all other areas of private life.

Crossdressing and sissy education

Crossdressing is about transforming a (male) sub into a woman (transvestite / sissy). This transformation into a woman begins with wearing women's underwear, women's clothes and learning to walk elegantly in high heels.
Crossdressing and sissy training is not just about the visual transformation into a woman. So the lady's lingerie wearer (DWT) also has to learn to apply make-up like a woman, to paint her nails and to adhere to a lady's rules of propriety and to adopt the submissive behavior of a maid.
Feminizing a male sub often involves wearing a chastity belt.

Foot, stocking and shoe fetish

The different fetishes such as foot, nylon or shoe fetishes, like any other fetish, have a central aspect. Just looking at it, touching it or smelling it, gives the fetishist sexual arousal. This sexual excitement can be increased by sniffing or crushing.
In the BDSM context, smelly socks, feet and shoes that smell of foot sweat are often used as punishment or as a reward. The top also likes to have the submissive partner kiss and lick the shoes clean to impose humiliation and punishment.

Ballbusting

Ballbusting is a painful form of CBT. In this practice, the mistress maltreats the slave's testicles with well aimed kicks and blows. Depending on the prospect's interests and inclinations, the ballbusting can be diversified. For example, the mistress can step with bare feet, boots or high heels. Kicks and punches with the knee or fists are also a common practice. So that the slaves cannot escape the kicks and blows, they are fixed with ropes or a spreader bar before ballbusting. Ballbusting has an important educational effect. If the slave sinks to the ground whimpering after the first kick and with tears in his eyes, he will correct his previous wrongdoing.

Trampling

When trampling (English for “trample / stamp”) the dominatrix stands on the sub and walks over his slave's body. Trampling can be done barefoot, wearing nylons or wearing different shoes. For this reason, trampling is popular with foot and shoe fetishists as well as lovers of nylon stockings and socks. While masochists focus on the pleasure of pain, fetishists experience unimagined sexual arousal through closeness and contact with their object of desire. Trampling has a high degrading factor. If the mistress steps over the naked slave with unwashed feet or presses her nylon-stocked feet into his face, the existing power imbalance increases. However, if the focus should be on pain, then the dominatrix likes to put on high heels with a nasty thin heel.

What is white?

Urological examination and urethral stimulation (sounding)

Urological examinations and urethral stimulation (sounding) is a popular practice in white clinics. In addition to the classic games with dilators and probes, catheter games are also an integral part of the urological examination. Urethral vibrators are stimulated by stretching and vibrations that spread to the glans or prostate.
As with most BDSM practices in the clinic, absolute hygiene must be observed when sounding.

Needle games

The term needle games refers to a BDSM practice that is often practiced in the white clinic area. The submissive partner's skin is pierced with needles and cannulas. Needle games lead to pleasure pain and look extremely artistic. Particularly popular parts of the body are the nipples, the back or the penis / scrotum.
In order to intensify the pleasurable pain, the needles can be loaded with weights or hot candle wax can be drizzled on.

Rectal treatments, intestinal enemas and enema

Clinic games (white eroticism) also include enemas or enema.
For many subs, just inserting the hose and running in the liquid gives them an exciting feeling. Rectal enemas are used for anal cleansing and as preparation for various types of play around the anus. In the clinic game, erotic enemas are often an integral part of the role play and are part of the realistic treatment of the patient.
Enemas can also be wonderfully integrated into BDSM games. In this way, the slave can be forced, under threat of severe punishment, to hold the administered fluid for as long as possible. The spontaneous loss of control over one's own bowel activities is often used to humiliate the slave.

Play piercing / Saline injection

Piercing the breast, penis foreskin or scrotum is a popular practice in clinical eroticism. With the injection, a sterile saline solution is injected under the skin and is therefore one of the most realistic clinical practices. The slave skin is injected under the skin without hitting nerve or blood vessels. Depending on the amount of saline solution administered, a clearly visible swelling may appear, which will disappear again over time.
This practice harbors a considerable risk of infection and should only be carried out by knowledgeable dominatrixes.

What is Latex?

Latex, rubber and leather fetish
In the BDSM area and especially in the SM studio, fetish clothing has a high priority. A dominatrix or a BDSM studio without latex, rubber and leather is difficult to imagine.
As with most fetishes, a strong fixation on these materials is crucial for latex, rubber and leather fetishes. The smell and the feel lead to a gain in sexual pleasure.
Latex fetishists appreciate the erotic sheen, the tingling sound and the feeling of wearing a second, tight-fitting skin.
The leather fetishists like the intense smell, the typical look and BDSM symbolism of leather.
The rubber fetishist focuses on the typical smell, the intense shine and, compared to latex, the rather restrictive feeling.
Latex education and multilayer latex training
Latex education and multilayer latex training
In multi-layer latex training, the sub is packed into a narrow latex cocoon (mummification). This practice is also known as latex bondage or sweating cure. The many different layers of latex not only make the sub immobile but also heats up his body tremendously.
In heavy rubber practices, the slave's body is also completely wrapped in latex and rubber. A fully rubberized latex slave is also known as a rubber doll. The full rubber lining with latex mask and latex clothes (rubber doll) also has a psychological aspect. Such a fully rubberized latex slave is no longer viewed as a person but rather as an object.
Mask training, breath control and smell training
The mask training can be motivated in very different ways and different masks are used depending on the area of ​​application. Gas masks or special sniffing masks are suitable for breath control and smell training. Leather and latex masks are mostly preferred to anonymize the slave. Pig and other animal masks are used in pet play or for the degradation and humiliation of the slave.

What is Dirty?

Spit and saliva (spitting)
Spitting is the English expression for spitting and salivation games. The sub is spit directly in the face. It can also be that the top spits on her shoes and the bottom then licks everything up again neatly. Another game of saliva is the dominatrix kiss. The mistress bends over the slave and lets her saliva run into the slave's mouth without the two's lips touching each other. Spitting and saliva games are humiliating and exciting at the same time for the slave.
Golden shower (piss) and scatplay (shit)
Pee (urophilia) describes the sexual preference for urine. The act of urinating or the urine itself is perceived as sexually stimulating. There are urine lovers who like to be peed on directly or to take the urine orally. Often the preference for pee is closely related to a preference for caviar (feces, scat). Pee and caviar are used in the BDSM scene for different purposes, for example for humiliation, punishment or as a reward. This type of piss and scatplay game is also used to train people to become a "human toilet ".
Sperm and Period Games
The menstruation fetishists (menophilia) find their sexual satisfaction in sucking used and soaked tampons and pads. Dirty games also include games with their own or someone else's sperm. For example, the ejaculate is spread on the slave's face or ingested orally. Sperm and period games are firmly anchored in the BDSM scene and are often used to punish and humiliate the slave.
Force-feeding
Force-feeding in the BDSM area is often used in the context of clinical sex, dirty play or training in the human toilet. The sub is forced to swallow a wide variety of (mostly disgusting) things using a hose gag, mouth spreader or a latex mask with a funnel. A slightly differently motivated fetish is the force fattening of a person.
Food Games
One of the most popular food play practices is crushing. A wide variety of top-quality foods are crushed with their shoes or bare feet and the sub then licks everything clean. Another popular food game variant is feeding (pre-chewed) leftover food.

What is Bondage?

Restraints / specialized bondage
The generally known restraint options such as handcuffs, spreader bars or pillory are "purpose bondages". The focus here is not on tying, but on the purpose of restraint. By means of a “purpose bondage”, the slave's body is placed and fixed in a position desired by the dominatrix. So the sub can be better punished or penetrated.
Tying with ropes (rope bondage)
Shackles with ropes (bondage) can be used to restrict freedom of movement and for an aesthetic (Japanese Shibari bondage) purpose. The tied up person (bottom) surrenders himself completely to the person tying him up (top). Restraint with ropes is also ideal for bringing the bottom into a body position preferred by the top. For example, positions with legs apart (Y-position) or the hogtie are very popular.
Plastic restraint (pallet wrap or saran wrap bondage)
In this special form of bondage, the sub is wrapped in cling film. The sub is wrapped in several layers of clear film like in a Concon and thus made immobile. This tight wrap develops a pleasant warmth and the top can cut a hole in the Concon at the desired places. For example, she can expose the nipples and attach some nasty pinching clamps.
Imprisonment
Imprisonment is a popular role play in the BDSM field. The slave is imprisoned by the dominatrix and is mercilessly exposed to her power and ruthlessness. The detention usually takes place in specially constructed cells or dungeons from which there is no escape. The caged cell slave ekes out a meager existence with bread and water and is completely at the mercy of the whims and harassment of the supervisor (dominatrix).

What is Body Worship?

Extremities refers to an extreme form of body worship. Whether that is manifested as needing a strong muscular woman who can overpower you quickly or simply admiration for a woman so beautiful, graceful and flawless that your only possible response is to get down on your knees and worship Amalie von Stein is the epitome of that desire.

 

Financial dominance / money slavery

Financial dominance (money slavery) is a not entirely undisputed fetish. As the term suggests, money slavery is all about the money and expensive gifts that the money slave gives to his MoneyDom. These tribute payments can take different forms: gifts and vouchers via Amazon or in the form of direct payments. The money mistress gives the money slave some of your attention as long as he pays and fulfills his duties. The only "affection" that the money slave receives from his money mistress is humiliation.