The year in which I lost 40 kg, my doctor took me off my medication and I no longer began to live dangerously all because of Amalie von Stein’s BDSM coaching!

Last August (2020) I made a life changing decision. I was really overweight at 330 lbs. and was feeling pretty miserable in the middle of lockdown. Living in East Texas I was comparatively lucky in that most things were open with a mask requirement. I was also lucky in that my employer allowed me to work from home for the last year so I had time on my hands.

BDSM coaching mit Amalie von Stein um die Träume vom prachtkörper wahr werden zu lassen.
Slave dreams about muscular body, wants to loose weight, starts physical exercises with fitness dominatrix.

I read somewhere that we all had a choice about how to come out of this event: healthier or less healthy, having learned new skills or not etc. I decided this was a unique opportunity to get into somewhat better shape. Medically I had problems with High Blood Pressure, Diabetes, and High Cholesterol all of which I was taking medication for. Lifestyle wise I was very sedentary with my job mostly consisting of sitting in front of a computer. I was also quite isolated.

I live in a small East Texas town where I moved 6 years ago after my wife died. I had been living in the Northeast but wanted something lower stress. I got it but also a rather lonely existence as I knew no one in the town I moved to and still know only coworkers. Luckily there is the internet and formed quite a few online friendships. Most of my interests were simply not found in small town East Texas. Among them was my sexuality.

All my adult life I had been interested in BDSM, particularly in Female Led Relationships or Femdom. While I was happily married for nearly 20 years and we did explore this aspect of sexuality, eventually we were a boring but happy married couple. This all changed when my wife got breast cancer. It was a very difficult 4 years until she eventually died as a result. So this was my situation a year ago after deciding to perhaps renew interests. The previous 10 years had been taken up with medical issues, depression, cross country moves, isolation and grief. It was time for something new.

I was finally reaching a point 6 years after my wife’s death where I was feeling a need for connection. I wasn’t interested in forming a relationship in the traditional sense. Really there wasn’t a lot to choose from locally. I thought about looking in the nearby city of Houston for possible connections and then Covid hit. Everything was closed from a social point of view. Even dating apps were really hit as nobody wanted to take a risk with a stranger. I was also keenly aware that my physical condition was poor. I had little to offer in terms of physical companionship however there was a possibility. The term “fitness Mistress” was entering the zeitgeist, well at least my zeitgeist and seemed fascinating to me. I had lost weight before with my wife going to Weight Watchers. It was a long, slow and expensive process which boiled down to motivation. The thing about support groups is that they allow you to outsource your motivation by relying on a group. It occurred to me that having a Fitness Dominatrix as coach would essentially do the same thing but with a far more effective and kinky motivation.

I contacted dominatrix Amalie von Stein in July of 2020 and explained all of this to her. As a fitness and BDSM coach he was very understanding and had an excellent skillset. Indeed what attracted me to her is that she is a professional trainer in addition to her more kinky role.

We agreed on some strategies, training and goals and she prepared a complete and hard exercise plan for me. This was all new as I was always the kid who skipped PE.

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Slave trains to get rid of the big belly.

I have always hated physical exercise but this BDSM relationship helped me reframe it in a more acceptable way. We started slowly, in August, with a combination of walking and I joined a gym which was luckily still open but with limits on occupancy and mask requirements. I made a year long commitment with dominatrix Amalie von Stein to try this out with a reward midway based on reaching a goal weight. The long term goal was 240 so 90 pounds to loose in one year. It was ambitious and I had no idea if it would work. Luckily Amalie von Stein had enough confidence for both of us.

 

Gewichtsverlust mit BDSM Fitness Coach und Trainer Amalie von Stein

The beginning was especially difficult. Not only was I exercising but my diet changed completely to focus on having vegetables at every meal and minimizing carbs in the form of bread and rice. Eventually I got better at cooking and not having restaurants available actually helped.

My walks, initially arduous and of short duration, became more and more frequent and longer over time, until I was actually able to walk three times a week for an hour in the morning and also for 45 minutes in the afternoon. This was a huge success for me, my self-esteem, yes my self-confidence increased slowly. I also went to the gym for an hour three times a week.

And I started to lose weight. But besides the weight there were also the medical side effects! As a diabetic, I go to the doctor every 3 months to have my blood sugar measured. When I first met after starting my workout, I had already lost 20 pounds and my blood sugar was suddenly stable and under control. The next time I visited him three months later, I had lost another 30 pounds.

Durch BDSM fitness coaching der Sklave auf einem vorher nachher Bild.
Nach einem Jahr weniger gefährlich Leben durch Amalie von Stein's bdsm fitness coaching.

The doctor was amazed and I he too me of my high blood pressure tablets at this appointment. Today, a year after starting my bdsm coaching journey, I hit my goal weight of 240 pounds (110kg), stopped taking my blood pressure and cholesterol pills, and soon even my diabetes medication will be off. I feel energetic and confident today. And all of these successes, thanks to the guidance of my “online” dominatrix and BDSM coach Amalie von Stein.

Next month I am going to meet my Mistress for the very first time in person. I am very much looking forward to it. Our relationship has been strange. We have not engaged in any of the typical kinky behavior that is associated with a Mistress/Sub relationship. We have worked more as coach and athlete. She has given me valuable guidance and helped me immensely. As such I would encourage anyone with a desire to implement this sort of change to seek out Amalie von Stein. She is trustworthy and knowledgeable in matters of health and exercise as well as fetish. Too often we who have the kinky drive for domination see this as just a masturbatory aid when in fact this inner drive if properly harnessed can be used to do amazing things. There is limitless potential in giving yourself over and letting yourself be made better.

Slave E.

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